This has been on my mind a lot lately. Numerous people are on these drugs, and my General Practitioner has decided that the low neutraphils in blood (as they have been for 3 years, usually the result of a bad viral infection, which I have had) and the high liver enzymes (only a âmild vital illnessâ she tells me) have nothing to do with my body being unwell and everything to do with my mind being unwell.
How this connection has been made when I have seen her 3 times in 3 years is BEYOND me. I have shown the GPâs emails (blood test results and recommendations of how to proceed) to a couple of friends and colleagues and ALL of them have told me I need to see another General Practitioner and that the psychologist âprescriptionâ (the GP literally gave me a prescription with the psychologistâs details on) makes no sense in relation to the blood tests. Fair enough. I have a stranger telling me that I have to add chemicals to my brain and make it change, and a few people who know me well telling me that her prescription is illogical.
So who should we trust? âTrainedâ practitioners or our friends?
I guess it doesnât really matter which, I could choose either path, but the thing that has knocked me is: The Seed of Doubt. This has been horrendous to deal with and has made me incredibly angry with the âdoctorâ. I told her in the appointment to deal with the fluid (literally) in my ears and the cold and a horrifically itchy rash, that I had already been to see people to âinvestigateâ my brain and they said I was ok. At 16: Psychologist One, to whom my mother sent me to âbe checked onâ, saw my parents as well as myself, and decided I was the âmost normal one in the familyâ.
At 31: my mother once again sent me to a counsellor âto be fixedâ, and the guy told me to stop thinking I was Jesus, go out and be naughty and then use Grace to get back into Godâs good books, because that is what Grace is for, as he laughed like a hyena between sentences⌠The book I was reading at the time was: âWhatâs So Amazing About Graceâ, which had Philip Yancey writing about if he fell in love with a German lady, he would learn the language very quickly and be completely passionate about her and live life loving her. The Grace âlanguageâ is not there for abuse, upon marrying her you donât say on your honeymoon night âOk my loveâ (in German, if youâve learnt it by then đ ) âThis has been great, but Iâm just going to go out and sleep with some other women now, and when I get back you have to forgive me and give me Graceâ ⌠this was literally what the âcounsellorâ was suggesting I do. I passed a photocopy on to the âcounsellorâ and his only comment at the end of my second and last session with him was, randomly, âThat Philip Yancey is a good writer.â Amen! That âcounsellorâ told me to take a mild sleeping tablet in the evening if I needed to, and/or a calming tablet in the day to help with my anxiety, post-traumatic stress and depression.
At 33: The third psychologist, also connected to my mother, told me I dress like a spinster, and Iâm really fine because itâs not like Iâm a drunkard or mass murderer or anything. He told his very personal tale about his abusive parents and that heâd had a very difficult childhood. Yet, why is a professional confessing their story to me? Same happened with the homeopath I went to by a suggestion of a massage specialist. The homeopath said thereâs nothing wrong with me, not even the gluten-intolerance that Iâve only recently managed to deal with (read âEish! Londonâ for that story), nor the dairy-intolerance that can still knock me into sinus hell with a teaspoon. Turns out her childhood was worse than Psychologist Threeâs, and I got her whole story too, she reckons Iâm fine and I must move on and stop hating myself.
Body Talk Therapy, I tried that too, at the advice of a friend who said that the woman had helped her daughter. With nothing to lose and an interest in the process and what people are getting up to, I went along. First session was insightful, second worrying and by the third I passed her my diaries and high-tailed it out of there. No colour on her walls, she was an ex-banker, she continually spoke of âother professionalsâ and their brilliance, at no point did she uplift herself or show me that she was confident in her own abilities. Her mind was full of other peopleâs words and experiences, nothing of her⌠she also told me I hate myself and I need to start loving myselfâŚ
So thatâs 5 âprofessionalsâ and 3 of them (I wasnât paying attention to the first one) had HECTIC personal journeys and issues that they kept showing me they âhadnâtâ recovered from, forgotten or forgiven, even if they âtoldâ me they had. They showed me that they were overflowing with insecurities. How could I assume this? Because I had completed âThe Artistâs Wayâ and spent a few months being up front with my insecurities, seeing where my anger and stress sources were and dealing with my self-hate. Yes, that had all been there, but by the time I got to them I was aware of it and working through it, and way more confident in myself than ever before⌠yet BAM: âSeed of Doubtâ⌠The second âcounsellorâ with his âgo get drunk and shag guysâ approach as he laughed like a hyena about everything, just doesnât count.
âSeed of Doubtâ. This world around us just fills us all with Doubt. The General Practitioner (the second one to tell me to take anti-depressants) had originally told me she was Christian and she prayed with me and told me to keep my faith and pray through it, all prayers are answered. From that she moved to itâs been a few years now, go take anti-depressantsâŚ
I sit back and ask: Where is the line between faith that God knit me in the womb, He has a plan for me and I must live that plan, no matter how challenging, on faith and trust in HIM and that HE will heal me⌠and God now wants me to trust man and take drugs so that may or may not be targeting the right chemical set-up in my brain as directed by human guess-work? When do I stop trusting that God gives me the strength to cope with anything, and say: âOk God, Your strength must be in man-made chemicals now.â? Itâs easy to argue that. God made man with brains to make chemicals to âfixâ us⌠but isnât that then saying that God made us incorrectly in the first place? Would God make a plan where He created us in a way where chemicals were needed because He âdidnât get the brain waves quite rightâ? Or the âdevilâ has so much control that we need chemicals to undo what the âdevilâ has done?
I have journaled and prayed over this⌠and what has resulted is this (NB â This ONLY refers to me and IS NOT written as an âanswerâ for anyone else): People want you to join them, because they take the drugs and they donât want to be alone in their dependency. The more people taking them, the more it can rationalise that they/drugs are âokâ, when their Souls know that it is not âokâ. Their Souls know that the anti-depressants are merely blocking out their Truth and their Strength, for they do not believe in their strength, or Mine. What one believes becomes oneâs mental truth, but it cannot be the Soul-Truth, because the Soulâs Truth is that you are all loved beyond comprehension, you are all stronger than you could ever know and that you are all connected through the beautiful energy of humanity. Yet this energy entails responsibility to love, to give, to forgive, to be honest, to be open, to share, to be quiet, to feed the Soul on good things and show kindness, tolerance and live peacefully.
Sadly, this is a broken world, and in this broken world people have decided to be led by their Egoâs and their bodily desires to âbe healthyâ, without knowing what âhealthyâ is. To âbe happyâ without knowing what âhappyâ is. To be ânormalâ, without knowing what ânormalâ is. To âloveâ, without knowing what âloveâ is⌠In not knowing that old Chinese Truth of Yin and Yang, the Ego wants only âthe goodâ and it will fight with chemicals, drugs, distractions and everything else to extinguish âthe badâ, yet this is not ânaturalâ or ânormalâ, even if media and other lost âpowersâ and people portray it as such.
It is not ârightâ to have âdark without lightâ, it is not ânormalâ to have âbirth without deathâ. You canât have hope, if you have had no tragedy, you canât know âstrengthâ if you have not known âweaknessâ. You cannot know âhappyâ if you have not known âsadâ. People of the world have not been educated or advised to know this Truth of the Yin and the Yang, they do not accept that the intensity of their experiences on earth will be matched on both levels of the spectrum of âLifeâ, and not only on one side. To only experience âoneâ âHappyâ side of life is imbalanced.
The chemicals placed in the brain will switch off the life experiences, will dull the passion for living, will âcalmâ you to a point where the intensity of your experience of life will be limited in both the glory and the depression. The two must be together, until the Soul reaches the point where it knows and has lived through it all and thus realises that it has all only been experience. At the end of each and every experience you were still again and knew that GOD WAS THERE. Live it all, and then be still and knowâŚ
Anti-depressants take away the roller-coaster emotions and experiences and make them easy kiddieâs-train experiences. This is the gift of choice at work. You may choose the raging river and waterfalls, or the paddling pool as your place to be. Ideally, you should experience both the rapids and the paddling pool, but you should not stop or stay at one point. Taking the anti-depressants is an option, and so is not taking them. It is your choice as to what you believe in and what you want to experience. BUT, if you choose Me, God, Love, Knowing and PEACE in My presence every day, then you do not need any chemicals, for I have an INCREDIBLE PLAN for you, I did knit you in your motherâs womb, I created you for this time, with the skills you need, connected to the people to see you through, with the experiences you need, with My Love and Grace in bountiful measures. Choose Me, and you choose LIFE. Choose Me and you choose STRENGTH. Choose Me and you choose LOVE. Choose Me and you choose HOPE.
Choose man, choose chemicals, choose to use and follow what is offered by a broken world, full of broken people who have not chosen Me, and you too will have to be broken and hurting and lost. This is no grand thought, or difficult equation, it is the most logical outcome and consequence possible.
Choose God and Love and you choose LIFE and LOVE. Choose the world and you choose broken and hurting.
It all depends on your questions: how you phrase them and how answer them⌠Is âeasierâ what you want on your gravestone?
Is a deadened mind what you want? Is a faithless life what you want? Is a drugged up Soul what you want? Is ruling by your body what you want? Is trust in a broken world what you want to choose?
Itâs freedom of choice. Itâs up to you⌠but, really, think about it⌠really think about it⌠before you decide.